Friday, May 27, 2016

inventory | 05


Making: a goal to document life a little better
Cooking: pulled pork in the crock pot - we just do a giant pork roast and eat it all week in every variety you can imagine
Drinking: is this even a question. #dietcoke5ever
Reading: one book a month for the entire year (i'm 3 for 5 so far... oops)
Looking: at my own snapchat story 10,000x a day
Playing: endless rounds of peek-a-boo
Wasting: my phone battery on too much social media scrolling
Wishing: we'd get a real good thunder storm
Enjoying: watching cooper and maylin form a friendship
Waiting: for some motivation to start blogging regularly again
Liking: how balanced life feels right now
Wondering: how I can convince Devin to move to Waco, TX so we can get a Fixer Upper and become best friends with the Gaines'
Loving: hiking every week with my little family
Hoping: a package from one of our 11k with May sponsors shows up today!
Marveling: at how much Maylin has grown up in the last few weeks.
Needing: groceries
Smelling: a wet diaper... #momlife
Wearing: my favorite lounge pants - the second i walk in the door every single day.
Following: the bachelorette bandwagon once again
Noticing: how bad i need another manicure
Knowing: this summer will be one of the most memorable of my life
Thinking: i need another haircut
Feeling: productive
Bookmarking: baby clothes always
Opening: day for my co-worker's taco truck, Taco CDMX - get the Al Pastor and the Birria!
Giggling: at Maylin's newest talent, growling!

Wednesday, May 25, 2016

Camping with Babies

We just took Maylin on her first camping trip and I did my first periscope last week about camping with babies because I've had SO many people ask about it! Not everyone was able to watch, so I decided to write it all down as well, and include things I didn't get a chance to cover in the broadcast!

Because Devin and I were both raised camping on a regular basis, and have been camping regularly ever since we were married, we knew camping with kids would be a part of our life. We planned out our entire summer and scheduled all of our trips at the beginning of the year, so I was able to spend a lot of time planning and researching. I was really disappointed with how little information was out there about camping with babies. I didn't find what I was looking for and realized I would have to just figure it out for myself! So we took Maylin camping! It was definitely successful, but we also learned a LOT.


A few disclaimers: I am SO GLAD to share what I've learned, but I know that every baby is different, everyone camps differently, and things that worked for us or applied to our situation won't work for you and yours. Also, this was our very first camping trip with a baby! We still have a long way's to go and a lot to figure out! Things that worked on this trip may not work on the next one, and a lot of things that we may have to deal with in the future weren't issues on this particular trip. I will try and share updates as we learn more and figure other things out!

A little background: Maylin is just over 7 months old, breastfed and eats some baby food, and is not mobile (she does roll over, but not often)

I'm going to split this up into sections and share my tips at the very end:

CLOTHING


Socks: We got a really nice pair of high quality wool socks at the OR Trade Show several years ago, and I don't remember the brand! We also have several pairs of Smartwool socks for her. Warm socks are super important, especially ones that will stay on tiny baby feet! Her feet are always the first thing to get cold, so I knew we'd need some good socks.

Jackets: We have been so happy with the Columbia jackets we've bought for Maylin. She has a fleece jacket and a shell, and they are both great. We got them at the Columbia Outlet in Lehi, UT but you can get them online as well. The outlet just has great prices and sales, but they are already fairly priced as is! I know you can buy outerwear for babies anywhere you can buy their clothes, but getting something from a company that specializes in outwear was so worth it to us.
Outfits: A helpful tip I always try and remember is that babies aren't necessarily more sensitive to hot and cold than adults. If you are cold, your baby is probably cold. If you are hot, your baby is probably hot. I didn't feel bad about over packing as far as outfits were concerned, because we're camping: it's dirty, the weather is changing a lot, and you always want to be prepared. For an overnight trip, I brought her 2 pairs of shorts, 2 pairs of pants, 1 tank top, 2 tee shirts and 2 long sleeve shirts.
Sun Hat: I was not on board with these goofy looking bucket hats for the longest time, but they're actually sort of adorable and they work really well! It's sometimes a battle to get Maylin to leave it alone on her head, but it kept her face out of the sun and I didn't have to smear sunscreen through her hair to protect her scalp! It also kept the bugs off (when she wasn't wearing a hat, they were ALL OVER her head).

SLEEPING


Fuzzy Suit: Devin calls it her "summit suit" but Maylin has one of these in every size because I always just thought they were so cute! She doesn't like sleeping with a blanket on her - she always kicks it off, and I'm still a little too anxious about SIDS or suffocation to let her sleep with one anyway, so she slept in a big fleece suit. What was convenient about having something like this is that I had a hood to cover her head, built-in mittens in the sleeves to cover her hands, and it was footed like pajamas. She wore a pair of pajamas underneath and slept plenty warm.

Beanie: Not necessarily just for sleeping, but a beanie was packed for sure! Our night in the tent was surprisingly warm, so the hood on her suit was enough, but a beanie for chilly mornings and evenings is great.
Blankets: Bring more than you probably think you need. Maylin ended up sleeping on blankets, and I also made sure to bring one she uses a lot at home, so she had something familiar. I also brought a blanket that was designated for outside, so I wouldn't have to worry about it getting dirty. The blankets she slept on were those fuzzy luxurious blankets you can always find at Costco or Target - I feel like everyone has one in their living room!
Co-Sleeping: When Devin and I car camp, we sleep on an air mattress, and instead of bringing sleeping bags we bring blankets and comforters. It's more comfortable that way! My main concern about camping with a baby was keeping her warm at night, so the best option seemed to be co sleeping.  I nurse Maylin in bed a lot, and have realized by doing that how uncomfortable co sleeping would be to me, but it seemed like the best way to keep her warm. The air mattress was so bouncy and uneven and we knew right away it wasn't going to work out! Like I said before, she ended up sleeping on a bunch of folded up blankets right next to me, and she slept just great! She's always slept through the night, and this night was no different.
Rock n Play: On this trip, we were in a 4-man tent, but later this summer, we'll be going on a longer camping trip and will be taking a much bigger 10-man tent. It has a tall enough ceiling that you can stand up in it and more than double the floor space of our 4-man tent, so we will most likely be bringing her rock-n-play, which is a portable bassinet. She naps in this at home, and I know she will sleep well in it.
Napping: Maylin is such a champ with napping, and doesn't get off course too much if she doesn't get a perfectly scheduled nap every day. She is good about napping on the go - she naps in the car a lot (she almost always falls asleep in the car, in fact!) and she even falls asleep in her carrier pack when we're hiking! I'm sure we'll run into issues with this on future trips, because the tent would be way too hot. Maybe we'd just have to let her be in the car and run the a/c? On this trip, she napped in my arms while we swung in the hammock and she seemed to enjoy that - I did too, because she never sleeps on me anymore, but this will definitely be something we have to figure out soon!

ESSENTIALS / TOILETRIES


Sunscreen: Always! Even if it's a little overcast - if you're going to be outside for an extended period of time, always always always apply sunscreen to your baby! Liberally! We use a waterproof SPF 50 and reapply throughout the day.

Bug Spray: We didn't bring ANY bug spray on this trip and we paid for it! We didn't have any baby-specific bug spray either (I know Babyganics makes some, and I've seen a few organic versions at places like REI that are safe for babies, too). I feel like bug spray is one of those things where I'll definitely want to use something baby-friendly, but this was an important thing that we didn't bring! We usually have bug spray in our camp box by default, but it got taken out and forgotten. I would never recommend going camping without it, haha!
Baby Wipes: We have a stash of baby wipes in basically every room of the house, so it made sense to bring a whole pack with us camping. I know you can get a smaller packs that are travel sized, but I would just recommend bringing a big/regular sized one. We were using them constantly!
Disinfecting Wipes: I don't think baby wipes are disinfecting, so having something that was disinfecting important! You can find these in the baby section of stores, and they are usually alcohol free (as opposed to Clorox wipes or something like that, that probably wouldn't be as safe to use around children). We used these to wipe down her toys when she dropped them in the dirt or clean things off in general.
First Aid: This is another obvious one! Maylin did get a few scrapes while we were camping, and having some Baby Aquaphor was a life saver! I would recommend bringing a whole baby first aid kit. You just never know, and while it may seem overprotective to bring, it won't once you're actually using it!
Medicine: I am in no way a hippy mom. I don't think medicine is bad for kids, I vaccinate my baby, and I don't bother with essential oils most of the time. I have no problem with giving her tylenol or anything, haha! We packed Motrin and gas relief drops and didn't use either of them, but I still wouldn't have left home without them. Had she been fussy or dehydrated or sick, I would have been kicking myself for not having some medicine with us! I would just say to pack a few medicines that you think you could potentially need, but try and bring ones that would cover more than one ailment. Whether that's medicine for teething or colds, or even your go-to essential oils - whatever you use to help you kid when they're sick or hurting - bring it!

AROUND CAMP
Shade Tarp: We brought a Rab tarp (they set up similar to a tent, but are lower to the ground) so Maylin could play outside, but be in the shade. It was a little too windy and hard to set up in the sand we were in, so we ended up taking it down, but I think having a shady spot for baby to play is important. We ended up opening both tent doors and setting her on the air mattress to play so she was in the shade but not closed off in the tent. I think we'll try the tarp again in the future, it just wasn't working out this time! Another great option would be a screen tent - that would keep the bugs at bay too!
Ground Tarp: If you aren't worried about sun or bugs, putting a tarp on the ground, and a blanket out on top of the tarp is a great option. Maylin isn't crawling yet, and she doesn't hardly roll (haha!) so we were able to just set her down on a blanket like that and keep her pretty clean and let her play.
Pack n Play: I know a lot of people take a pack n play and I think we'll start doing this once she's mobile! I know you can also get bigger play pens (pack n plays are pretty small) and this would be perfect for crawlers!
Fitted Sheet: I have seen people take a fitted sheet to places like the beach, flip it upside down and put stuff in each corner to create a lip, and I think that would work out pretty well, too! I also know you can put a fitted sheet over a pack n play to keep kids out of the sun and bugs - I think you can also buy accessories like that for pack n plays that are specifically made for them, but the fitted sheet would be a cheap hack!
Camping High Chair: I have this high on my wishlist because we don't own one yet, but they look so perfect for camping! Something that made things hard was finding a place to put Maylin while we were cooking. We ended up sitting her in a regular camp chair and keeping a very close eye on her. She did fine, but a camping high chair would be so perfect.

EATING
Food: We only brought Maylin's favorite food - stuff we KNEW she would eat. We didn't want to throw her off more than we had to, and it was nice to give her something she was excited about eating. We packed bibs and spoons just like we use at home, but I know you can get camp sporks and things that are baby/kid size!
Breastfeeding: I nursed Maylin about twice as often as I usually do at home, because we were outside in the heat. She was in a new, unfamiliar place, and she does tend to nurse for comfort a lot, so it helped her feel at ease. I was also a little concerned about keeping her hydrated, so nursing her that often ensured that she was getting enough fluids! If you kids are drinking milk / water / juice - make sure they drink LOTS. Get them a special camping sippy cup or water bottle to make it fun, but hound them about drinking because dehydration settles in quickly and can cause a lot of serious problems.
Pumping: I usually pump twice a day at home, but since I was nursing her more than usual, I ended up only pumping once in the morning. I use a Medela pump and I had several options for power. The pump comes with a battery pack, so you don't need to plug it in to anything, but it takes like, 8 batteries, and we didn't have any lying around, so instead I used our Goal Zero Sherpa 100, which is a rechargeable power pack. It worked great! Another good option would be a car adapter - you'd just have to turn on the car and sit in there to pump. You could also bring a hand pump! Lots of options. We stored the milk in the cooler, and we cleaned the parts by boiling water on the stove with some dish soap. It wasn't much different from home!
Nursing Cover: Something breathable for sure - especially in the heat! I didn't end up using a cover because it was just Devin and I and our camp site was pretty secluded, but I always bring it in case I end up needing to nurse Maylin in public (like along the hiking trail, or at a popular scenic area). My Covered Goods nursing cover is really lightweight and breathable, so I just bring that!

TIPS
1. Keep things as close to normal as you can. If you have a routine at home, try and stick to is as you see fit, just so you aren't throwing everything off for your baby. Keeping things "normal" for us meant getting at least 1 good nap in for her, putting her down at her regular bed time, having her sleep in actual pajamas... things like that.
2. Bring toys! I would recommend sticking with mostly plastic things that can be easily wiped down and cleaned. We brought mostly those, but also a few stuffed toys, just because they are some of May's favorites, and I knew they would be familiar.
3. Use the car! Take advantage of the car. If the bugs are getting bad, if it's too hot or too cold, sit in the car! Turn on the a/c or heating, and play or nurse in there for awhile if you have to! I mentioned earlier, you could even have them nap in the car if you needed to.
4.  Distractions are key. I've learned that the best way to get Maylin over a tantrum is to distract her with something new. Bring lots of distractions, or take advantage of the fact that you're in a new place to distract them! Go on a walk, let them play with rocks or leaves, anything like that! I do this with her at home all the time. If you bought some new, cheap toys and brought them on trips, that would be good too! It keeps them busy!
5. Bring an iPad! We downloaded a few episodes of Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood onto our iPad and Maylin watched it in the car on the drive there and in the tent at night / in the morning. She watches it at home, and loves it.
6. Hide baby wipes and blankets in your sleep bag / under your covers to keep them warm! I didn't want to have to change her diaper in the morning with frozen wipes, and putting the pack at my feet while we slept kept them warm enough.
7. If you need to heat up breast milk on the go, you can stop at a gas station or coffee shop and get hot water (like, boiling hot). I've done this at several gas stations and even Starbucks, any time we're out and about and need to heat up a bottle, and I've never been charged. People have always been super understanding. Coffee machines in gas stations usually have a red nozzle on the side for hot water, so I just fill an insulated coffee cup about half way full and it has worked so well!
8. Already be comfortable with how you camp. I wouldn't recommend your first time camping ever to also be your baby's first time camping. Devin and I have been camping together for years. We know how we like to set up our camp site, we know where we keep things, we have a routine, we are comfortable with it all, and I think that helps Maylin feel comfortable as well.
9. Go somewhere familiar. Don't try something new when it's your first time! Go to a place you camp at often. Try and be close to home. If things were going terribly and we needed to leave, we could have been packed up and back home within probably 3 hours and that was a comfort to know we weren't stranded! Start with an overnight trip, so you don't have to worry about more than just 1 night. It was a little overwhelming for me, so 1 night was plenty! That first trip is going to be one giant experiment, so one night will be plenty! It gave us an idea of what camping with her would be like this summer. Try to pick dates where you know the weather will be good.
10. Accept the fact that everything is going to take longer. This applies to camping pretty well, obviously, but I try and remember this on a daily basis, too. Just embrace the fact that you'll have to move a little slower and take a little longer to get things done. Don't pack your days as full of activities as you normally would, and be flexible with the schedule. Going somewhere new and being outside in the sun can wear a kid out - they may need more / longer naps, and may nap at different times than normal. You need to be okay with that!
11. PATIENCE. Always. Patience is hard. But it's so important. This whole experience is new for you, it's new for your baby, it's a huge adjustment, so just be patient.

Something Devin and I have always tried to remember and tell each other: calm parents = calm kid.

Happy Camping!

Let me know if you have any tips or comments, I'd love to hear from you!

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Thursday, April 7, 2016

Six Months In



My daughter is coming up on six months, and I'm getting nostalgic about the newborn baby she used to be for the first time. These six months went by fast, but not in a way where I feel like they've slipped through my fingers. I've soaked up every second, I really have. But it did go fast. 

She's hitting all kinds of milestones lately, and both Devin and I agree that in the past week alone, she has grown up SO much. She is engaging with us in ways she never has, and she just seems so much more observant and aware of everything going on around her. She's getting more curious every day, and she's getting so strong. It's hard to believe how much development happens so quickly. Her personality is really starting to show, and it's the most incredible thing to watch her go from a tiny baby, to a tiny person.

My stretch marks have faded, my hips have widened and my stomach has what seems to be an eternal pooch, and even though I'm in this new and unfamiliar body - one I'm growingly self-conscious in - I've grown so confident in my role as a mother. More confident in myself than I think I've ever been. I have found so much of myself in raising Maylin. I had a sneaking suspicion from a very young age that motherhood was my calling in life, and I'm so glad to have found that to be true. I've never felt more fulfilled. I've never felt more proud of myself. More sure of myself. More happy.

I've grown to love my husband in so many more ways - fatherhood looks so spectacular on him. When you have a baby, the dynamic of your marriage shifts. We are better spouses, better friends and better parents, because we are doing this with each other. We are on a whole new level, and it's been so great for us. We are more in sync than I think we've ever been.

As I was pregnant, I most often heard people talk about how tough parenthood was. And I'm not saying those people are wrong, because it's so hard. And Maylin is a really great kid, so I can't imagine how much harder it would be if she weren't - and maybe it's just because it's so fun and so rewarding and fulfilling - but it doesn't feel hard. It's way too fun to worry about how hard it is.

Six months in and I'm feeling on top of the world. I'm feeling like I could have 11 more babies. But even in just these first six months, I've learned how quickly and how easily this seems to ebb and flow. And I know it won't be long before I'm having another moment where I feel defeated, clueless and exhausted. But I think that's what makes it so beautiful. Motherhood wouldn't be as good as it is if it weren't hard sometimes, too. The reward wouldn't be as sweet. The moments wouldn't be as cherished.

Monday, February 22, 2016

Family Photos by Jeff Skalla

Jeff has been working for Devin for awhile now, and over the last year or so, he has gotten really into photography and would take his camera along when he and his friends would go climbing. His pictures were so impressive, so I joked with Devin that we should have him take our family pictures. As luck would have it, Jeff started to delve into portrait photography and needed a few models. Devin offered to help him with posing couples and families (being a former professional photographer himself) and I generously ;) volunteered us to be in front of the camera. I knew Jeff wouldn't let us down! We took these pictures up American Fork Canyon, where we have been spending afternoons almost every single weekend since Maylin was born. The sun was bright and it was Maylin's nap time, but we still got so many good shots, so I thought I'd share a few.

 
If only she had been smiling!!! 


Okay, this obviously has nothing to do with our family pictures, but this is a picture of Mesa Arch in Arches National Park that Jeff took a few weeks ago and I can't get over it. It looks like it needs to be in National Geographic. He is so talented! Everyone should check him out on instagram, facebook, and his website! (Also, Jeff didn't ask for any kind of promotion, I'm just that impressed with his work, and that grateful that he took the time before another climbing trip to snap some shots of my little family!)

Friday, January 29, 2016

My Ride or Die Baby Products (so far):

I know I'm new to this whole Mom gig, but it didn't take long for me to figure out what I liked, and what I didn't, when it comes to baby things. There is a big long list of things I still "need" and an even longer one of things I can't wait to try, but here's what's working for us so well since Maylin was born:

PUJ TUB | in looking for a baby bath, everything seemed SO BIG and SO BULKY and I was already so annoyed that babies seem to need about 25 giant contraptions that all do different things and none of them compact, and I was going to have to stub my toes on all of them for the rest of my life. so getting the puj tub meant i had at least one less thing to trip over around the house.

The puj tub fits in virtually any sink, and we've given May baths in every sink in the house, but we prefer to use it in the kitchen sink because 1) it's the biggest sink, so we can angle the tub to whatever is best for Maylin, and our kitchen sink has an extendable sprayer nozzle, which is the greatest trick for giving a baby a bath! It makes it all so easy. The tub also stores flat, so we hung a command hook in the back of the shower and hang it on the wall. Super easy to use, and I know we'll be able to use it until she grows out of it, and for future kids, too! It will last forever, and she seems to love it!

HONEST SHAMPOO & BODY WASH | I am so in love with the smell of this shampoo! It's so subtle and mild, and SO gentle. Giving a baby a bath is so tricky, and May has ended up with soap in her eyes more times then I'd admit to, but she never minds at all, because it's so gentle and I'm always able to rinse it out without bothering her one bit. I got a bunch of this at a baby shower, and learned they sell it at Costco! I'm pretty sure I have a lifetime supply, and I'm so okay with that. I am dying to try Tubby Todd next though! I keep hearing great things! Also worth noting: If we're giving her a bath before a nap or before bed, we always use the Johnson's bedtime relaxing lavender one. It smells SO GOOD and seems to actually work. She always sleeps well when we use this!

EDGEHILL COLLECTION BLANKET | One of Devin's bosses and his wife gave us this blanket as a gift, and I had never heard of the brand or anything, but this is hands down my favorite blanket for Maylin. Forever and always. It's my true love. It's stretchy knit, not too thick, but not too thin, either. It's so perfect. After searching online, I found them at Dillard's! I'm not kidding when I say this is the best blanket ever. Devin is constantly razzing me about how many baby blankets we have and I just keep using the same one over and over, but so often, I need something thicker than a swaddle and thinner than a quilt, and this blanket perfectly fits the bill. It's so soft and a great size, too! I think I will buy one for every baby we have, plus all the babies everyone I know has. Because it's just that great.

JOHNSON'S BABY LOTION | Yes, the classic pink bottle! I used this lotion on myself for years and couldn't wait to have a baby to use it on, and now I do! This lotion is such a classic baby thing to me, and I love the smell SO MUCH. I think I mostly love it just because I imagined having a real baby to use baby lotion on for oh, I don't know my whole life, and now I DO! It's a staple.

DIAPER BAG DISPENSER | These are the greatest invention ever. We've been using bags like this for years, because we have a dog and like to be responsible dog owners and pick up after him, so we've always had the version they sell at pet stores stocked in our glove boxes, but these ones are *deodorizing* and perfect for throwing dirty diapers in if you can't get to a garbage can right away (like a long car ride). It's also great when your baby has a blow out or makes some other giant mess on their clothes. I cringe at the thought of putting those soiled clothes in the diaper bag to just make a mess on everything else in there, so I love being able to throw them in this bag, and take it straight to the washer when we get home! So convenient. They're cheap, too.

MAM PACIFIERS | We are still working on getting Maylin to take a binky - it's really hit and miss, and she seems to take any binky, but does best with the Mam ones! I don't know enough about pacifiers to know why she prefers it over the soothies, or avent pacifiers we have, but we will be stocking up on these ones once she starts taking a binky more regularly because she does so well with them! I am anxious, though, to try a wubbanub. I totally see the need to have something weighted on the binky to keep it in her mouth!

BABY AQUAPHOR | for everything, always. ie: chapped lips, scratches from those razor sharp finger nails, and everything in between. My sisters both rave about aquaphor and use it on themselves all the time, so I wasn't surprised when they both recommended the baby version to me when I complained about Maylin's chapped lips. A little goes a long way, and I love having a product that will last! I've started putting it on my lips every night before bed (this winter has been a beast to my skin!!) and it's made a noticeable difference!

ROTUNDA DIAPER BAG | After hearing complaints from other girls about their diaper bags being too narrow, I took a look at my Rotunda and started to worry I had made a mistake, but I have been so pleasantly surprised! I love the look of the bag and I love that it doesn't scream "diaper bag" when you see it. It's so cute and there is so much room! My favorite thing to do before leaving the house is pack Maylin's diaper bag and all the pockets (there are EIGHT compartments!) make it so easy to be organized. I can reach in the bag without looking and get exactly what I need! Little Unicorn is debuting this bag in new colors later this month (I think?), and they are also launching a few new bags and I think I may need another! I still have my eye on the Fawn Design backpack though! I don't think there's anything wrong with having a few diaper bags to switch off between whenever you feel like it, or depending on what you're doing! Another hack: I think I've completely made up my mind to get another Little Unicorn diaper bag (possibly the Rotunda again, just a different color) to be my new temple bag! Think about it - aren't I brilliant?!

STROLLER | I am in love with my stroller. It's the Graco FastAction Jogger Click Connect. It is the greatest thing we've purchased, I think! I love any chance to use it! I really wanted a jogger style stroller, because I wanted it to have bigger wheels, so we could take it with us "off roading" since we spend so much time outside. It made sense to have something that would be easy to push on grass, or a dirt road/trail. And that's exactly what we got! It rides so smooth, it folds up and has a kick stand, it has a huge storage space under the seat, and 2 cup holders for me (that was a must!). My only complaint is the phone dock! I think this was the most brilliant idea to have a dock between the cup holders for a phone, but it's too small for my iPhone 6s! (it fits an iPhone 5 like a glove, though) I'm just crossing my fingers they will release a bigger one and I can buy the attachment and replace the one I have now that's too small! The stroller brakes are so easy to use, and I love that you can lock or unlock the front wheel for stabilization. Maylin loves movement, so she's a huge fan of riding in the stroller, and I know this thing will last us forever! The one con: even though it folds up, it is still huge. It takes up almost the entire cargo of my jeep, and I would be surprised if it fit in the trunk of our Mazda, even without anything else in there!

NURSING COVER | These multi-use covers are such a popular product right now, so I'm sure everyone has heard of them, but I love that I can bring ONE thing with me that works as a carseat cover, nursing cover, and shopping car cover. Maylin isn't big enough to sit in a shopping cart yet, obviously, so we don't use it that way right now, but as a car seat and nursing cover, I couldn't ask for more! Mine is from Covered Goods (all the brands seem virtually the same, though). They have a bunch of cute patterns, that are mostly neutral, which I love. It was hard to find anything with a simple, modern design elsewhere. I love the light, jersey knit fabric! It's warm enough to block out the cold weather and wind, but totally breathable for May. I love being able to throw it on the carseat to keep strangers at bay, and I love that it's so stretchy and I can pull it down to peek on her! My favorite use by far is as a nursing cover, though! Maylin is only three months old, so while I feel solid about breastfeeding at home, where I don't need to cover up, I still stress out a little about nursing in public. Have a full 360 degrees of coverage makes it SO much easier. I am not very graceful with breastfeeding, I wouldn't say, so it's nice to not have to worry about anyone getting an eyeful if they are at the right (wrong?) angle. I feel so much more comfortable than I would if I just have a canopy style cover that only went over the front!

ROCK N PLAY | I was hesitant to get on board with this rocker at first, and I honestly don't know why. I had my my eye on the 4moms mamaroo, but it was so unrealistic for us to buy a bassinet for sleeping, and a swing or rocker for during the day. Maylin sleeps in the rock n play every night and takes at least half of her naps in it (she naps in our bed, laying on my chest, or in our arms, and even sometimes in the crib). I love how easy it is to drag around the house, so she can come with me wherever I am! We've also folded it up and taken it to Grandma's, which is so convenient! The styles are sometimes pretty bad, but they have a lot of cute ones too, and while I know Maylin would love something like a mamaroo that has motion, she still has no problems with the rock n play. It has a vibration setting, and I can't tell if she likes it or not, but it's such a nice feature to have, and she literally exists in this thing. We couldn't live without it.

OLD NAVY SOCKS | Baby socks are the world's biggest joke. They are the tiniest article of clothing in the world, and I can't believe we haven't lost any yet, but they are also notorious for not staying on baby's feet. That's where Old Navy comes in. Their socks are thicker and more fitted and they really do stay on Maylin's feet! I'd be lying if I said I never had to adjust or tug at them, because I still do, but only sometimes, and they have never once fallen off. Plus, they always come in the cutest prints because Old Navy is the best. We bought these exact socks in 0-3, and went back and bought them in 3-6 as well to use as her feet grow!

HAPPINESS LIVES HERE HEADBANDS | I love baby headbands as much as the next mom, and I quickly found a favorite. I gathered headbands for months while I was pregnant, and eventually ended up winning a giveaway from HLH's etsy shop. I got I think 8 different headbands and They are my FAVORITE. I know the big trend right now is nylon bands because they are stretchy and one size fits all, but they still manage to leave a dent in May's head, and I don't like how the nylon curls, plus I don't think every bow looks cute with a tan elastic band! I'm not crazy about them. Enter: Happiness Lives Here. The elastic they use is SO SOFT and get this: EVERY HEADBAND IS ADJUSTABLE. It's a little tricky to get the size right (we find Maylin with the headband over her eyes sometimes, haha!) but they are never too tight, and they will fit for AGES. I love the felt boy style, and have several colors in both sizes. I plan on going back and buying her entire collection (all 20 colors in the same style bow) because I love them that much. Her bow is such a simple classic style and I will never get sick of it! These are the best. My problem: the shop seems to go "on vacation" a lot as she catches up on orders, which is a little annoying, but not a deal breaker. I mean, I can't imagine having a headband emergency.

EARTH MAMA ANGEL BABY NIPPLE CREAM | I was given this nipple cream, and I'm SO GLAD I WAS, because I don't think I would have ever bought it myself. When I first opened up the bottle, I thought it was so weird and gross, but it smelled so good and it's my favorite, favorite cream. It's so gentle, and since it's oil based, it breaks down and really absorbs into the skin instead of just laying on top. I love the Lansinoh lanolin because I feel like it's heavy duty, but it's so tacky and thick that it's sometimes hard to use. Honorable mention: The Medela Tender Care Lanolin - it's the perfect middle ground.

LACTATION LINK BREASTFEEDING BASICS CLASS | The number one reason I have been successful at breastfeeding. You can read more about why I loved this class so much here.

GIRLIE GLUE | Maylin has a little hair, but not much, so I love sticking bow on her head that aren't attached to a headband. I don't do this as much now that she's getting older and starting to use her hands more, but this was definitely my favorite bow option when she was a newborn and her head was too small for headbands (and too small proportionally for the adjustable ones). Girlie glue is all natural, super gentle and lasts all day long. It wipes off easy with a baby wipe, and doesn't make a huge mess! It's made out of corn syrup, sugar and agave nectar - that's it!

OLD NAVY & CARTER'S CLOTHES | Target is too hit & miss, but when their $5 stuff is good, it's so good. In fact, that $5 section is where I've found all my favorite baby leggings for Maylin! (I shop the girls and boys sides). Old Navy and Carter's are my favorite places to get clothes, but I have never once paid full price. Carter's is always having a sale, and you can find coupon codes for both stores 100% of the time online. Also, I know spam emails are a pain, but if you sign up for their email lists, it's worth it to get the discount codes! I have shopped H&M a bunch of times, but have never come away with any clothes I really truly loved (but by the looks of it, that will change once we graduate to toddler sizes). I just feel like Old Navy & Carter's both have cute clothes that are totally my style, lots of options, good sales, and good fit. They are my go-to's!

Saturday, January 23, 2016

Latest Favorite Beauty Buys



Maybelline Volum' Express The Falsies Push Up Drama Mascara | My sister recommended this mascara to me and said it was a true dupe for my all time favorite: Benefit They're Real! mascara. I was skeptical, but the next time I needed to buy a new tube, I decided to try this one and I LOVE IT! My only complaint: it transfers to my brow bone every. single. time. I complained to my sister about this and she said she has the same problem and just applies it first, cleans it up once it's dry, and then goes in with eyeshadow. Ugh. It's worth it though!

Lush Mint Julips Lip Scrub | (not sure why this link only goes to a mint chocolate one?) Every time I go to Lush, they are sold out of mint julip and only have popcorn and bubblegum, which both sound terrible to me, haha but the last time I was in store, this was in stock so I snagged one! I love having soft lips, so exfoliating them about once a week is key. I love that this is all natural (they actually recommend you lick off the product once you are done rubbing it in!). It works like a charm and I feel like it makes my lip products apply way more smoothly. My only complaint: the scrub at the top of the jar tends to dry up a bit, but it's still totally usable and you don't waste any product!

Rusk Texture Dry Finishing Spray Medium Hold | It's possible I've mentioned this before, but it's because I love it so much. Pictured is a travel size version, but YOU GUYS, THIS SPRAY. So, here's what I love about a texturizing spray: when I curl my hair, by the end, every single curl has fallen into the same wave, and I prefer to break it up a bit. This stuff smells amazing and works perfectly. I love that it doesn't leave my hair feeling like there is product in it. I also really love the Not Your Mother's Beach Babe sea salt spray, too, I just like this one better. Only complaint: the price ($18 for the full size).

NYX Hi Definition Photo Concealer Wand | When I first got this concealer, I hated it. it was super crepe-y under my eyes and settled in the creases and fine lines. The next time I used it, I went in with less product (I'll admit, I was pretty heavy handed that first time), and now I'm in love! What I love most about this concealer is that it comes in a shade light enough to actually be highlighting on my skin (I mainly conceal under my eyes - I use a concealer that matches my foundation for blemishes!) I'm not sure why, I mean I'm not that pale, but I hadn't found a concealer light enough to do that before. I love this formula. It's my new go-to. Only complaint: how easy it is to apply too much, and have it crease.

Mario Badescu Facial Spray with Aloe, Herb and Rosewater | Those bins by the check out at Ulta are my kryptonite. But I love being able to find travel / sample sizes of products I have wanted to try, and it's also nice when you see something you think you might like, but you're not sure that you want to commit to the full sized product. That's what happened with this facial spray. I love facial sprays, and I had the old school C.O. Bigelow Vitamin Boost Toner for YEARS before they discontinued it (I'm still bitter!). I've loved making my own toner (out of witch hazel, ACV and essential oils), but I wanted something a little more refreshing. This spray smells like roses, I love it so much! I can't say it's improved my skin (yet, at least), but I love how refreshing it is. I spray it on every morning and night. My one complaint is that this is one of those products that doesn't really do anything for you, but it's just nice to have around. Maybe a little worthless, but I like it anyway.

Real Techniques Miracle Complexion Sponge | When the beauty blender came out, lots of dupes followed, and I feel like at first, everyone was saying that none of the knock-offs held a candle to the original. I don't know if Real Techniques changed their sponge, but all of the sudden everyone is raving about it! Devin got me a few for Christmas to try, and I've been hooked! I like that they are a little bigger than the beauty blender, and a little softer. My only complaint: the flat side! I'm not a fan. I feel like it doesn't push flush against my face, which makes it harder to blend, so I only use the pointed end. But for a fraction of the cost of the original beauty blender, I think I'll make the switch permanently!

Lush Angels on Bare Skin Cleanser | Have I already talked about this cleanser? Probably. But I will never use anything else probably ever. In August, I went to Lush and had an employee sit me down and do all the product demos on my arm after I told her about my skin and what I was looking for. I was sold on Angels on Bare Skin right away, because it left my skin SO SMOOTH, and it was exfoliating without being too aggressive. Now, I use it every single day, and I've told everyone I know about it. I've also said multiple times, that I SWEAR I noticed a difference after one use. It makes my skin glow. It completely cleans out your pores, so gently, it's all natural, smells so good and my only complaint is that it's a little bit messy, but I really don't mind!

Wednesday, January 20, 2016

From My Soapbox: New Mom Survival Tips (read with caution / open mind / minimal judgement / a crispy diet coke)

As a new mom, I can totally see how other women are so quick to give you their advice and tell you what to do, because it doesn't take too long to find out what works for you, and once you do, you are SO happy you've found something that works!!! But in talking with my pregnant friends, or moms newer than me, I've tried to remind myself that what works for me and my baby may not work for them, or their baby. It's just a suggestion, or an option, not The One and Only Right Way to Do This Thing. That being said, here are my New Mom Survival Tips. The things that work so well for me and have saved me from exhaustion, insanity pain and all the etceteras. They may by some chance also work for you, or may seem like they're worth trying, maybe.


1. (If you're breastfeeding) MASTER THE SIDE-LYING POSITION - okay pause. First let me just say: I had my heart set on breastfeeding LONG before I got pregnant. It's something I personally wanted for myself and my babies. It's a conscious decision I made. My opinion, though, is that I don't care how you're feeding your baby, as long as you're feeding your baby. I don't want this to sound like I think breastfeeding is The One and Only Right Way to Feed Your Child, although I am a HUGE advocate for breastfeeding and all the benefits you can get from it! But I have also seen in so many women that I know personally and love, that breastfeeding isn't always going to work out, and yes, even breastfeeding isn't always the right choice for a particular child/mother/circumstance. And I so agree. So feed your babies however you want (you're the mother, and mother knows best!), but know that I, personally, currently, with my baby, am all about breastfeeding, and that's where this tip comes from.

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I am SO GLAD that breastfeeding has worked out. And it has worked out well. The only problem was, I found out very quickly how easy it was to have atrocious posture while nursing. And I paid for it! I had such terrible shoulder and back pain from nursing that I would dread it and beg for Devin to rub my shoulders almost every night. Also, I'm sure you've heard this about 24,546 times by now, but if you are breastfeeding, it will feel like it's all you ever do. Because it will basically be all you ever do. And aside from the fact that breastfeeding all the time means you are literally breastfeeding ALL the time (even when you're tired and wish you were sleeping!), it is tiring in itself! (Breast milk has a hormone called cholecystokinin which causes sleepiness in baby and mother!)

SO: I learned how to nurse laying down. AND IT SAVED MY LIFE. This was a position we had gone over briefly in my breastfeeding class, and once I remembered it and practiced it, it became my favorite way to nurse. It saves so much energy to lay down, and is super comfortable. Plus, it's a huge bonus that Maylin happens to be a really sleepy eater, and will nurse herself to sleep at almost every single feeding, so when we're already laying down, it makes it easy to just leave her there (in my bed - she can't roll yet, so we're safe!) instead of trying to move her into her bassinet or crib, and risk waking her up. I know I said at the beginning, that I wasn't going to shove my advice down your throat, but if you are breastfeeding / wanting to breastfeed, LOCK THIS DOWN. It's wonderful.

2. Take a breastfeeding class from not the hospital. I've heard only bad things about the breastfeeding classes at the hospital, which is the only reason why I say to take one from somewhere else. But not just anywhere else: Lactation Link. If you plan to breastfeed (even if you aren't set on it, but want to try it out at least), TAKE A BREASTFEEDING CLASS. No amount of Pinterest articles can replace it. Lindsey Shipley is a certified IBLCE lactation consultant, worked as a Labor & Delivery Nurse for 5 years, and has two kids. She has experience in every area that matters for breastfeeding, and that was a huge bonus to me. I'm sure there are a lot of really great classes out there, but Lindsey's is the one I took, and I will sing her praises for the rest of my life! She teaches in person in Highland, UT, but you can also buy her video courses online and watch them any time. She has a few different ones - I took Breastfeeding Basics. I also recommend following her on instagram (@lactationlink) because she is constantly posting tips, ideas, facts, and other useful information, and if you comment with a question, she will reply to you with an answer 100% of the time. She is so knowledgeable, so sweet, so experienced and gives you TONS of information. I took at least 10 pages of notes when I went to her class (she provides a note sheet but it's not nearly big enough, so take a notebook!) and I loved it so much.

I left the two hour class feeling SO excited to breastfeed, so CONFIDENT in my decision and ability, and so much more prepared. After Maylin was born, I had learned how critical it was that we nurse within the first hour, and maybe 20 minutes after she was born, we tried, and she latched right away and nursed for 30 minutes. It was amazing. Maybe Maylin is an angel (she is, who am I kidding). Maybe I'm superwoman (much more questionable), or maybe going into it with the confidence I had gained from that class is what made it such a good experience (ding ding ding!), but we have had SO MUCH SUCCESS breastfeeding and I completely attribute all of it, ALL OF IT, to Lactation Link. I would recommend it to everybody. Several women even took their husbands (and I totally agree that it's important for your husband to learn this stuff, too, because you'll need the help and support!).

3. Leave your house sometimes, but on your terms. Even if it was just to go for a drive, I needed to GTFO of my house. The days really blended together for me in the beginning and all of the sudden, I had gone days without showering OR changing my clothes. I am such a major homebody, and I also had a lot of post partum anxiety, so the thought of leaving the house with a newborn would stress me to tears. I had to do it on my own terms, when I was comfortable. It took some time, but it was worth it, and it wasn't too long before weekly walks at the park were the thing I looked forward to most on my maternity leave. Maylin is 3 months old now, and I still get anxiety about being away from home with her for too long, so really, this one takes a lot of time, but it's so necessary. And it will totally help build up your confidence as a mother!

4. Take everything (EVERYTHING) day by day, moment by moment. This one is hard to "advise" others on, because everyone is so different and everyone is going to parent so different, but what has worked out SO WELL for us is to "go with the flow". We haven't put any pressure on Maylin at all to be on a specific schedule (some kids need structure, others might not!). We let her create her own. Listen, babies are super intuitive creatures. They get it. They know what they need. They are figuring all this out, just like you are, but they are smart. Maylin has slept through the night since she was born (for the first two weeks, I was setting alarms to wake her up and feed her, because we were focused on getting her back up to her birth weight, based on advice from my doctor, so don't freak out.) Anyway, she's slept through the night since day one, which I don't take any credit for. That's just some magical miracle fluke that I will never take for granted! She also naps like clockwork. None of which was warranted by Devin or I. We just let her do her thing, and it's worked out perfectly. I know that some people say their babies get their days and nights mixed up, which is why this is a sensitive thing to advise others on, but just letting Maylin do what she wanted and paying close attention to her body language (you learn so quickly what your baby does and how they act when they are tired or hungry or uncomfortable) ended up being what worked best for us.

Also, taking things day by day. Meaning stop freaking out about the future, and I don't mean "the future" like, 10 years from now (but also, don't freak out about that), I mean stop freaking out about tomorrow, or tonight, or the next feeding. Stop freaking out about the unfolded laundry, or what you'll make for dinner. Just calm down and focus on what's going on RIGHT NOW. You'll be so much more effective if you focus on the moment. Everything with babies takes time. It's easy to get caught up in worrying about babies, especially when you're seeing what's going on with other babies their age. Why isn't my baby laughing already? Why isn't my baby rolling over yet? Why isn't my baby sleeping through the night? But it really makes a difference to just STOP. And think about what is happening at moment. Which leads us to...

5. STOP COMPARING YOUR BABY TO THE OTHER BABIES. Ooooooh my gosh. I am laughing / rolling my eyes at myself as I write this because even I can't take my own advice here. It's SO HARD. SO. HARD. This isn't new information to anyone. Hello, it's 2016. We are all well versed in how bad we suck at making ourselves feel like crap because we keep comparing our lives to others'. We live in a world where everyone portrays their lives on social media, and they do it the way they want to. Sometimes, it's the full truth, sometimes it's mostly good stuff but a few "tbh" posts sprinkled throughout, sometimes it's complete BS. IT IS SO EASY to get caught up in comparing. Chances are, you'll follow SEVERAL other moms out there whose babies are about your baby's age. And even more with babies who aren't the same age as your baby, but you will still find yourself comparing to. And it will stress you out to no end, cause unwarranted tears, and make you feel like an utter failure. It will. And it's so hard to avoid. And I would be honestly shocked if I ever met someone who successfully avoided comparing their life to someone else's in the 21st century. The post partum hormones are not your friend, especially here. But just for pete's sake PLEASE do not think less of your child, less of your parenting ability, or less of yourself as a human being just because @girlyouwenttohighschoolwith delivered a smaller baby than you and @yourcousinswife 's little girl is already laughing, even though they are a month younger than your kid. THIS IS SO DUMB. If you really think about it, IT IS SO DUMB. Every. Single. Baby is SO different. and SO UNIQUE. That comparing is a serious waste of time (and emotion!). It's a coincidence that someone you know had a baby around the same time as you, and that's the end of it. It's not the Universe's way of throwing you into a competition against that person to see who has the cutest, smallest, most well developed baby. I promise you. There is no good to come from picking them apart to make yourself feel better, or stalking their feed to make yourself feel worse (I need to tattoo this on my phone-scrolling thumb, so I can be better at this!). Just relish in the fact that you have the cutest baby in the world (you're totally biased, but that's sort of the point. I mean, you're right, aren't you?!) and that baby is AN AMAZING MIRACLE YOU GREW INSIDE OF YOU.

This post was long. And it was written entirely from my soap box. My soap box formed solely on the whole three and a half month's worth of experience (read: not a lot of experience, really) I have. So take what I say with a grain of salt, but maybe it will help?! I'm taking my chances, here.